Devotion: Proverbs 14:29

Proverbs 14:29 Whoever is patient has great understanding, but one who is quick-tempered displays folly.

How would you describe a person who is patient? Would you use words like wise, even tempered, slow to respond? Or do we not think of these things when we think of patience? In my mind, a patient person is one who has great self control and can maintain a steady temperament regardless of the circumstances. But would I have considered them wise? Probably not. Not until reading today’s verse.

A patient person has great understanding. They show wisdom in their response to things because a patient person is going to weigh out all of the options and consider the outcomes before engaging. They are not going to “fly by the seat of their pants” and jump at the first sign of trouble. When a person shows patience they are able to manage their temper, unlike a foolish person, and they show a depth of understanding and insight, as well as that sense of self-control.  It signifies a calm, thoughtful approach that we can argue reflects God’s character. He is patient with us, and we should be patient in response to others and with regard to ourselves.

The opposing side of the coin is the person who shows folly. They showcase foolishness rather than self-control. They react to things quickly without thinking of the consequences. One who lacks control or is an impatient person often doesn’t think of things in the long term. They don’t weigh the options and consider the consequences of their actions. This usually results in unnecessary conflict and further hurts them and others.

We see the value in being patient and exercising self-control. We know that it helps us with controlling emotions which  leads to better, wiser choices, whereas losing control leads to mistakes, conflict, and folly.

Today’s verse was just one proverb in a series of great wisdom contained within the overall book, as well as within chapter 14 itself, where we see an emphasis on wisdom tied to our mental and emotional well-being. Remember today’s proverb when you find yourself starting to respond quickly to something and know that with patience you exercise wisdom and not foolishness.

Prayer: Lord, Help me to reign in the emotional responses and to show patience instead, evaluating the situation rather than reacting foolishly. Amen

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